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As you may already be aware from my other articles, tantric massage is a holistic and encompassing form of massage which aims to raise sexual energy, so that you can achieve greater states of health, harmony and emotional well- being. Not only are your emotions, mind and physical being profoundly positively affected, but you can also achieve higher states of consciousness, or conscious awareness, through the benefits of the tantric philosophy and principles applied to massage.
Let’s now look at the fundamentals of tantric massage and how it can help with premature ejaculation.
Tantric massage uses a combination of effleurage, petrissage, and tapotement. These are the key components to any type of Swedish, holistic, aromatherapy or other massage types, massage.
Effleurage (Stroking): Effleurage improves circulation and has a deeply soothing effect, helping to relax your muscles and loosen knots or stored tension. This massage technique is usually applied to the whole body and when applied above your genitals, just above your pelvic region, it can aid in the transformation of stored jing to qi or shen. (More on this later.) Effleurage essentially moves energy upwards, releasing emotions and lingering unwanted thoughts stored in the body in the process. Oh yes, our thoughts, beliefs, emotions and past memories become stored in our physical bodies!
Petrissage (Kneading): Petrissage helps to release adhesions and reach deeper into your muscles. This may be less used in tantric massage as it is not very gentle or soft, which is what is often required when working with emotional- sexual energy. However, it can be used in other areas such as your back, neck, and shoulders to aid in the removal of deeply stored tension and stress. This adds to the holistic and encompassing intentions of tantric massage.
Tapotement (Percussion): Tapotement is a type of tapping technique whereby pressure is applied in a rhythmic cycle, as a percussion instrument or drum. (Sort of!) It improves blood flow and can help inner chi levels to rise, which directly influences sexual energy.
A lot of what occurs in premature ejaculation is one not being able to control their sexual energy and inner physical, or primal, impulses. Working on a direct level through massage techniques such as tapotement allows for a type of “preventative” health care to premature ejaculation. In other words, the pressure applied has a deep inner effect whilst also aiding in sensuality and physical sensations- which, during sexual union or intercourse, has a considerable effect.
The intention of a tantric massage practitioner is always to help the client or patient with compassion, empathy, and understanding. In this respect, tantric massage is more than physical phenomena. The practitioner or masseuse actively sends subtle intentions and loving & harmonizing thoughts towards the receiver, so that on a subtle level the massage provider’s emotions, thoughts, and healing energies are directly shaping and affecting the receiver’s experience.
Whilst physically applying massage, there is simultaneously healing occurring on a spiritual or subconscious level. Removing blocks, stored energy and tension from the body also means that stored or repressed emotions and limiting, or self- destructive beliefs, are being removed, and this is deeply significant for one’s sexual energy.
Effleurage, for example, can be used to alter your emotional state- the pressure applied to provide pleasurable sensations whilst equally moving energy upwards away from the genitalia region. One’s muscles also relax considerably, and this again has a direct impact on ejaculation at later times.
The key point to be aware of is that we are holistic and complex beings; we have a mind, emotions, body, and spirit, which all interact with one another to shape our experiences. Tantric massage aids in new sensations, feelings of deep joy, peace and contentment, and an elevated blissful state where you feel emotionally and mentally one with both yourself and the world around. This also affects how you interact with your lover or partner!
In short, nervous, muscular and circulatory activity and health are all improved greatly through tantric massage. Your emotional body is activated in new ways and bliss experienced through the pleasurable physical sensations does have an influence on your inner impulses and desires. The main change lies in the following. When you start to become more in tune with your body, senses, softness and inner spirit- a profound effect of tantric massage- you less desire instant sexual gratification or the need to ejaculate senselessly.
You desire more intimacy, depth, real bonding, and authentic connection, and this massively manifests into how you engage sexually with a partner. Sex becomes an act of heightened sensual pleasure, erotic and intimate connection, and love and bonding- it is not just about satisfying your manhood or physical self. Thus, sex becomes longer, more intimate and ultimately more satisfying, and this in itself allows you to control your urges more. The result? No more premature ejaculation, of course.
Taoist philosophy teaches that the human body creates three essential energies. These are known as the Three Treasures and are essential to the way you engage sexually and how often, frequently or long or short your ejaculate, and feel the need to orgasm.
Jing: Jing is the “lowest” energy and is known as life essence. It is strongly related to sexual energy as the depletion of jing is directly caused by excessive sexual intercourse and ejaculation. It is said to hold the lowest vibration of all the 3 treasures, only because of the fact that the other two are higher and signify higher states of mind and being.
Jing is fundamentally your life essence and through tantric massage and other forms of healing and self- development, such as tantric meditation, jing can be increased and reserved. This improves your life force, energy levels, ability to function mentally, emotional well- being and inner harmony, and many other aspects of self.
Qi: Qi is your life force, the air energy responsible for longevity, good or optimum health and inner balance. When you have strong qi levels you are vibrant, more awake and alert, more self- aware and able to connect to others on an emotionally deep and mature, spiritual and intellectual level. Good qi is the result of the cultivation of jing. The other way to see it is that by learning to control your sexual desires and energies, you can transmute seminal fluids into a different type of energy. Tantric massage has an alchemical quality to it which aids in all aspects of self and well- being.
Shen: Shen is your spiritual energy. Strong shen provides purpose, feelings of worthiness and self- esteem, can increase confidence and self- empowerment, and evolves and raises your vibration. Jing transforms into qi, and qi transforms to shen, therefore learning to control premature ejaculation has a range of beneficial effects!
Qigong is the study and practice of transmuting lower energies and desires into higher states of consciousness, being and awareness. And so many areas of life can improve through this. Tantric massage provides a highly effective foundation and groundwork for your ability to overcome issues with premature ejaculation, but you can also engage in self- healing and development activities yourself. Qigong, tantric massage, kundalini yoga, and transcendental or mindful meditation can also significantly improve your emotional levels and subsequent ability to control your sexual desires and urges. They are highly advised.
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